Deb Luxton


 Coaching for Pastors Wives

My passion is to partner with you in Christ-centered transformation. The transformation that ignites a passion for forward movement, authentic living, and courage to go boldly into the impact you were created and designed to have. Do you desire to put the pain of others’ words or actions behind you?

  • Do you desire to embrace the influence God created and designed you to have?
  • Do you desire to put boundaries in place and maintain them?
  • Do you allow past or present wounds to hold you back?
  • Do you desire to set goals and attain them?

Let’s talk if you answered “yes” to any one of these questions. Many things can get in the way of living the abundant life God has for you.
Inner struggles like control, perfectionism, loneliness, self-doubt, being all things to all people, and festering emotional wounds are unhealthy.  These inner struggles impede your God ordained influence – your gift(s) of service.

my clients experience ~

  • personal and ministry/professional growth through deeper self-awareness
  • serenity amid the busyness, stress, and chaos of life
  • freedom from the lies of shame, fear, and other self-defeating thoughts
  • release from anger, bitterness, resentment
  • certainty and boldness in setting and maintaining healthy boundaries
  • renewed hope, inspiring vision and plans for the future, and attainment of goals
  • confidence and courage to go boldly where God calls them

Schedule a Wounded Heart Pastors Wives Coaching Consultation

When we struggle to live the Spirit-filled life God designed us for, our hearts are wounded. It hurts.

I have a heart for you and the unique role God has called you to serve in His Kingdom work.  Let’s talk.

I will help you figure out your best path forward. I know it can be scary to reach out for help ~

  • “Who will know?”
  • “What would they say?”
  • “I should be able to handle things!”

These messages are daunting and do you no good. Shutting them down is much easier said than done for sure. But, that is exactly what you can do!
Confidentiality is guaranteed.

The price of this consultation is nominal, $20.00, and included to help you take this step. I will be sure to apply this fee as a credit if you decide to go ahead with coaching.

Note: You will be asked to pay the fee when scheduling your consultation.  Schedule your no-obligation session today!

Your wounded heart session includes:

  • 30 minutes of uninterrupted time focused on you.
  • I will listen to your heart – your hurts, your hopes, and your dreams.
  • We will discuss if coaching is a good fit to get you from where you are to where you want to be. 
  • I will help you zero in on at least one next step, doing all I can to ensure you do not leave empty-handed!
  • No pressure and no obligation – I will give you 100% of my time and attention, never trying to “sell” you my services.

Fan into flames the spiritual gift God gave you …
for God has not given you a spirit of fear
& timidity but of power, love & self-discipline.

2 Timothy 1:6-7 (NLT)


Pastor’s wives, you are a tremendous blessing with tremendous opportunity!

God has placed you in a role with many opportunities to influence.  John Maxwell has a famous quote, “leadership is influence.”

Whether you see yourself as a ‘leader’ is not the question. Instead, the question is, “what am I doing with the influence God has called me to?”

My husband and I have led a Celebrate Recovery ministry since 2006.  I have served in leadership positions most of my life.  However, I did not always see myself as an influencer (leader).  Therefore, I did not recognize the opportunities God gave me to embrace my influence.  Maybe you can relate.

I, like you, understand:

  • brutal loneliness
  • having many friends but not having ‘friends’
  • the need for confidential discussions
  • wearing masks and feeling less than authentic
  • fears of unclear or unknown expectations
  • living in the shadow(s) of my husband/others
  • codependent behaviors due to a lack of healthy boundaries
  • carrying the weight of responsibility to get things done, believing I can’t depend on others
  • the stress of my family’s struggles while empathizing with everyone else’s struggles
  • talking, but no one is listening
  • anxiety and times of depression
  • the lack of harmony (balance) in having, or taking, little time for self

None of this is the way it has to be!  Schedule a Wounded Heart consultation today. 


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