You Can Say “NO”
It’s not uncommon to hear it said, “no, is a good word. It should be used more often.” Why then, do we still find ourselves in a place of overwhelm and bombarded schedules? Or, why do people find themselves in situations and wonder why? Apparently, we know we...
Avoiding Conflict
Some people see conflict at every turn. It just seems to be a part of who they are. Admittedly, I use to be one of these people. How to Avoid Conflict I have heard people say that conflict is unavoidable. I guess, like many things, it depends on how you look at it. I...
Now What?
Finding out we really have no control is tough. One day you wake up and wonder, “how in the world did I get here?” “How did things get so out of control?” One of these questions, or maybe both, is soon followed by “now what?” or “where do I go from here?” I know many...
All it Takes is a Little Hot Water
I have always considered myself a strong woman, little did I know how strong until I found myself in some hot water; yet again. Why do I keep doing this to myself? Eleanor Roosevelt said: “A woman is like a tea bag - you can’t tell how strong she is...
God Restores the Broken
I've been struggling a bit to get another blog post done since I did my last one on my dear friend's passing. On this past Friday morning it came to me. Last Thursday and Friday, I was participating in a two day strategic planning meeting with the Board of Directors...
“Wild Bill” – A Great Friend
Yesterday, a very dear friend passed from this world to be with Jesus. As hard as it is, I am thankful for this blessing. You see, Bill loved the Lord and he lived with severe back pain, and other ailments, that doctors said would never get better. Bill pushed...
Fear of Insignificance
I think we all struggle, certainly at times, with a fear of whether or not our life will have stood for something that makes a difference. We all long to leave our mark on this world. I don't know about you, but I have many times fought the internal battle of wanting...
Fear of My Past Catching Up
We are products of our past, but we don’t have to be prisoners of it. If you find yourself feeling like you can't let go of the past, you probably feel like a prisoner at times. Hanging on to our sins and never forgiving ourselves can be an awful existence....
Fear of Being Found Out or Failure
Ready for no more shame, no more hiding, no more secrecy? Tired of being uncomfortable in your own skin? "Jenny was always the center of attention. She always had it all together. I couldn't understand how she kept it all together and it honestly broke my heart."...
The Fear of Rejection and Betrayal
Many women struggle with the fear of rejection. This concern comes in many different varieties and not always do we recognize that fear of rejection or being betrayed is at the heart of our anxiety. This is the second post in a handful series on fear. Do you ever...